Mariner & Cape Poge Bay - Split-Leather Turk's Head Knot Nautical Rope...
$58 - kieljamespatrick.com
$58 - kieljamespatrick.com
Friday, May 27, 2011
Fashion Friday: Memorial Day Weekend
Thursday, May 26, 2011
Off The Grid
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That thing is has literally been attached to my body- that thing being my Blackberry. At least that is how I feel, and i'm sure others think the same! I am constantly checking it for emails, texts, BBMs. 3 days ago I made the decision to turn off my phone and not log into Facebook.
This decision seemed completely absurd to everyone around me, but for me it was quite easy. I did not want to be bothered and constantly obsess over whether I had any new messages. Sitting around hoping that someone texts and they never do is probably the worst thing ever.
We all know that that "quick login into Facebook" turns into an hour long depth into people's profiles that you would prefer not to be looking at- hence why I also decided to stay off of Facebook for a few days. I always seem to find pictures of people that I don't want to see, or find out information about people I would be fine without knowing.
I was going to have my phone turned off for as long as I saw necessary- anyone that would care enough to reach my had my e-mail address so it was fine. My mother, however, saw this differently! In the end, her constant questioning and "what if I need to reach you's" ended up being more annoying than having my phone turned on! haha
It was a great feeling actually to have it turned off and not be going on Facebook. I recommend everyone try it, if only for a day.
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Seeking Permanence
I have realized that one of the hardest things (for me at least) to accept about life is the fact that permanence is essentially non-existent. While one may think he has permanence in his life, I can almost guarantee it is only a temporary thing and will change in the feature- usually when one least wants it to.
Without fundamental or marked change- what if the change is not marked? I believe those are the most difficult to deal with. Those long, slow, drawn out events that one or many do not want to admit are happening.
The lack of permanence is life keep's one on his toes, however. Life may be a little more dull if everything was constant and not subject to change, but I find the things that are most highly subject to change are the things that one would not want to change- location, friends, jobs for example. Through various experiences, I am discovering that some control can be given over this. Namely, choose friends carefully, and make important decisions with caution.
So seek to create a sense of permanence with the things that ground you in life. In the back of your head always be aware that these things or those moments you enjoy most may not always be, but do not worry about that until the time when they are gone arrive.
Remember: The moments you love and enjoy will be the moments you miss the most...this is difficult aspect of permanence.
P.S. summer blogging may slow down a bit, so dont forget to follow me on Twitter :)
Friday, May 20, 2011
Fashion Friday: Rainy Day, City Thoughts
I created a Polyvore inspired by a rainy day in the city:
AG Adriano Goldschmied Protege 1-Year Freshman Jeans
$215 - neimanmarcus.com
$215 - neimanmarcus.com
I cannot help but miss you...
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Too Much is Never Enough: Swim Trunks
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| Above: Lilly Pulitzer |
some of my favorite prints
I do branch out from Lilly...only slightly, however.
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| Left: Quicksilver Center: Michael Kors Right: Canterbury of New Zealand |
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
It's Like a Bad Breakup
Dear New York,
We first got serious about 9 months ago. Things started off pretty well, but then got a little rough- I considered breaking up with you about 3 months into our relationship, but we worked things out, luckily. I have gotten to know you very well, and know that we are the perfect match. Although you are quite lovely, you can be a total bitch sometimes- it gets to be a little too much to handle at times.
You have taught me a lot about myself and who I am and what I want...all things one would want in a relationship, correct? I've especially enjoyed our time together over the past 4 months....no words can really describe them. Looking back, I cannot believe 9 months has flashed before our eyes. I can vividly remember when we met, that hot, humid, August afternoon. I was exhausted.
New York, you have been about 90% real and 10% fictitious. This good bye is more like a "see you later" and we will get through it just fine, I hope. Did you plan this dreary, gray weather for my departure? The mood seems quite fitting.
Yours truly
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Oscar Wilde Knows Best
If there is anything I dislike (actually I dislike quite a lot of things) it is non-response from someone or being obviously ignored. When this is a good "friend" it makes it that much worse because we begin thinking are we actually friends or aren't we?
From past experiences, I noticed that when this behavior becomes noticeable its a foreshadowing of whats to come- a slow separation and drifting apart. Obviously this is something that can be semi difficult to come to terms with, especially when you aren't the one initiating this ignorance.
It's even easier to catch someone doing this because of Twitter, Facebook ect. Im a pretty smart person, so one's
I turn to one of my favorite authors, Oscar Wilde. His novels have amazing messages, and even more inspiring quotes
He writes, "Some cause happiness wherever they go; other whenever they go" - perhaps this is true...we may be better off without someone, but facing that fact often proves to be very difficult.
and the best thing that Wilde ever wrote, in my opinion:
"There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about"
I try to keep that in mind whenever you hear things about yourself you would rather not know was being said- at least im giving them something to talk about right??
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